
A lot of people do anal training with toys before trying anal sex.īutt plugs are great for anal training, since you can leave them inserted for relatively long sessions, giving your body plenty of time to adjust. Doing so can allow you to take (and, indeed, enjoy taking) larger things in your arse, and also help you relax and enjoy anal play more in general. This means it won’t stay in place very well once inserted, but that it may be easier to insert and remove for a first time anal player.Īnal training is the process of engaging in progressively more intense anal play over the course of several sessions. Here’s one from Lovehoney which includes a few different toys and a basic douche.įinally, there’s this Tracey Cox plug which, as well as being rather modest in size, also has a smoother overall shape with no distinct “neck”. These can be fun, since they give you a few different shapes to play around with. Some retailers also sell anal play “kits”. Many newbies will also quite easily be able to handle the small and medium version of the same plug. In fact it’s so diminuitive that some might find it too small. Lovehoney make this ultra-petite little black silicone number, the teeny-tiny size of which is great for anal virgins. A slimline buttplug made from a relatively soft material like silicone is perfect. If you’ve never inserted anything into your arse before, you should start with something small to check that you enjoy the sensation. Pick the one that suits you and your anal goals. Our recommended butt plugs for every purposeīelow are a range of butt plugs for every conceivable purpose. Pick it up, give it a rinse if it’s messy or there’s lube on the handle. Experiment, and find out what sensations are enjoyable for you. Try tapping on the base of the plug, fucking your arse with the plug, rotating the plug. Once your arsehole is gripping the neck of the plug you can let go of it. If you feel discomfort at any stage, pause and wait for your body to get used to the new sensations before continuing to insert. Keep pushing it in until you feel the neck of the plug snug in your arsehole. The tip of the plug will slip into your body. If you’re as relaxed as you can be and it still hurts, add more lube or adjust the position of the plug until it doesn’t. Many people find masturbating a good way of relaxing. Inserting a small butt plug shouldn’t hurt.

You may have to do a little exploring with your fingers to find the right spot, or else you might have to move the tip up and down or in circles until it’s in the right place.Īpply gentle pressure.

Press the tip of the plug against your arse. I recommend lying on your back, knees up, legs spread, hips elevated, and reaching down between your legs. Give your hands a wipe with the towel before picking up the plug so that you don’t get lube on the handle (doing so will make it difficult to keep a grip on the plug).Īdopt a position where you can reach your arse without having to contort. Liberally lube the whole of the plug, apart from the base or handle. Get some lube ( make sure it’s compatible with the plug).
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When you’re the only person in the room, it takes a lot of the pressure off and you’re free to explore and enjoy without worrying about looking sexy (or, conversely, making a mess). I always recommend playing solo the first time you play with a butt plug. Being able to leave a plug in place while you masturbate, fuck, or do other things allows your body plenty of time to get used to it. Most plugs are tapered to make insertion easy and smooth, and have a narrow neck so that the plug will stay in place without you holding it there. If you’ve never inserted something into your arse before, a butt plug is an excellent choice for your first insertion.
